Confessions Of A Cam Girl: What It Actually Is, And What It’s Definitely Not

As with most sex work, webcamming doesn’t possess the best reputation. It’s often known as exploitation or possibly a last-resort hustle to repay debt, but Reed Amber, 26, explains how webcam models are just your average self-employed freelancers with similar quantity of agency and independence anyone else.

Model, producer and co-creator of YouTube channel ComeCurious, Reed is actually the physical embodiment of sex positivity, which she defines as “trying to make people think that what they’re doing and just what they’re into isn’t wrong, it’s normal and it’s absolutely fine.” She’s a tremendous advocate for removing stigma and taboos around sex, and we involved with her to learn more about webcamming, a distinct sex work that is certainly seldom mentioned.

So why do you think some men, and probably women also, prefer it to porn?
“There’s much free porn that we feel webcamming is a bit more of the personal one-on-one. You can go surfing and locate any ol’ stuff, but webcamming is more personal; it’s tailored exactly as to the you need along with what you’re looking for. You’re not sharing it with 100 thousand other people. This is your show. Usually you increase your relationship, I speak to you like a friend i respect you as a person. ‘How has your day been, what did you achieve with a home shops, what are you cooking for dinner…’ it’s like an online relationship”

…So it’s kind of like the ‘girlfriend experience’?
“Yes, it’s very much like the girlfriend experience. But that also is dependent upon exactly what the webcam model is similar to and in addition just what the person paying is a lot like because everyone wants something more important.”

Have you ever had avoid a request?
“I’m definitely one from the cam girls who does hardly ever decline. I’ve always aspired to try something totally new, but that’s not because I felt like I had to. It’s just personally what I need to do. I would like to tick stuff off my list, I want to it is able to once particularly if it comes to sex positivity. Regardless of whether it’s something I’m certainly not into, I’d still give it a try. Basically didn’t like it, I’d end up like ‘sorry, I’m certainly not into that.’ But there’s many people that might avoid almost everything.”

Cautious really common requests that you get?
“It is dependent upon the profile that you setup because when you produce a profile, you’re writing just a little bio of you, and read might be seen as a somewhat more ‘out there’. I’m available to anything, like roleplay, so a lot of the time I get roleplay requests, more just because I have discovered them fun no matter how unusual or bizarre they may be. What excites me are uncommon and unusual requests that you just wouldn’t really encounter. Life’s too boring otherwise”

A way to react when you inform them the things you do?
“I get yourself a mixture of emotions. Mostly people react positively with the way I speak about it. It’s so different if you’re really shy and timid and quiet regarding it. It immediately sends out this concept of ‘oh they’re not completely ok with it.’

Basically you get to be your sex-positive self for your full potential…
“Exactly! That’s where I received my first taste of sex positivity. Dealing with my relationships on and on to university I had been like ‘woah, nobody thinks the way I do, I need to be weird’. But being a webcam model, I realised everybody is into something else entirely, they simply think that they can’t talk about it.”

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